Human Species: Male-Female Companionship

Why I wrote this article?

After going through breakups and staying in relationships, I have understood some of the things which I would like to contribute back to this globe, you people, so that you might not suffer, or if you are already suffering then I hope this will help you to end your suffering.

We have to understand some points first. 

1. I am not a qualified therapist.
2. I am sharing my life experiences which I think might help you.
3. I am writing this article to record my understanding.

Now, as we have gone through the points. I would like the discussion to start from the basics which are-

Definition of Male and Female

The scientific definition of 'male' in the human species:

Males have pairs of X and Y chromosomes in each cell. The Y chromosome is present in males usually.

The social definition of 'male' in society:

A male usually has traditional masculine traits in him such as; (courage, strong will, ambition, independence, assertiveness, initiative, rationality, and emotional control). The Male is a provider. A great provider man can attract lots and lots of females and can choose any girl from the pool.

The scientific definition of 'female' in the human species:

Females have pairs of X chromosomes in each cell. The Y chromosome is not present in females at all usually.

The social definition of 'female' in society:

A female usually has traditional feminine traits in her such as; (gentleness, modesty, humility, sacrifice, supportiveness, empathy, compassion, tenderness, nurturance, intuitiveness, sensitivity, and unselfishness). The female is a supportive body to the male body.  A beautiful female can attract a bunch of males and can choose the best provider man which she finds worthy of her beauty.

Sociological and Biological Standpoint

It's not just from a sociological standpoint but also from a biological standpoint. Man is power and woman is care. It's been said many times that males can care better than females and females can be powerful but I am discussing it in a general way and because this kind of exception is very small so we can say that this exception makes statistically no impact on a general equation of my topic male-female companionship.

Now, as I was saying males are powerful and females are caring. So we can say that the most powerful man is worthy of marrying the most beautiful, most caring woman. And the most beautiful and caring woman is worthy of marrying the most powerful man.

Ok, So We are getting somewhere be with me. 

Let's understand,

What is the definition of being powerful for a man?

A man who can provide physiological needs and security, these two are the two stages of Maslow's need hierarchy theory.

We live in a certain way that we need these things. And the man who can provide more of it is powerful in today's time. It is directly linked to the status of a man in society.

High Value: Male and Female

• A man is of high value when he is powerful and a great provider. And a woman is of high value when she is beautiful and nurturing or caring. 
• A man gets more value usually as he gets older. And a woman loses her value as she gets older as natural beauty decays over time so the woman, who is younger is more beautiful or higher in value than other older women.
• We can say that in women, younger women are highly valued. And in men, older men are highly valued.
• Women are mostly born with value (feminine traits). And men have to get their value through societal affirmations like status and power.
• Younger women and older men are a perfect match usually. Not always but most of the time. If you are refusing this then maybe you are not a high-value man or maybe you are not a high-value woman because this logic stands with high-value men and women.

Tip for Males

Don't go after her, build your self-value, she will come after you. Build yourself to be worthy of her beauty and be the best version. She should accept you as her lord. Show godly masculine traits so that she can hand herself over to you. Become worthy, be her God, and make her wish a reality.

Tip for Females

Don't undervalue (deprioritize, defame, ignore) a high-value man when you have him or you can have him as his value will go up with time usually and you will lose your value over time, so acquire him and be a good companion, respect him, give time, prioritize him, otherwise you will lose him because you know you will usually get a low-value man than him and he will be going to have higher value women than you, definitely.

Some Undeniable Facts about Male-Female Companionship

1. We (male and female) are more loyal when we have our first and second relationships.
2. We get mature after breakups because it is a bad experience and bad experiences are always good teachers.
3. Women want great providers who are powerful, not soft teddy bears. On the other hand, men want caring beauty, not a rock-hard masculine girl who is loud and doesn't care.
4. Women want rock-hard men and men want soft, fluffy, caring women (YKIYK).
   

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